We don't encourage others just so we can be praised for it or told how great we are. We do it because we care, we love, we empathize, we identify, and because we want something good for that person.
But caregivers, people who give of themselves to others, also need their own good feelings of affirmation, acceptance, and appreciation.
Find ways to be available to good feelings of acceptance, appreciation, and gratitude for who you are, how you give of yourself to others, and for the love you share. Be with those who offer these affirmations to you. Be open to the generosity and care of others. Freely accept smiles, warm embraces, encouraging words, loving touches, and grace from the friends and people who love and appreciate you.
Be willing to treat yourself in ways that fulfill some of your own needs for acknowledgement and care.
© 2011 Timothy Moody